The Change…Which one represent you?

Life can be challenging sometimes…or most of the times, or every agonizing minutes of your life is challenging or none at all, be it whichever, it will change someone…that is life for you

Even though i used the word change, it could also mean unchanged…why people change in the first place then…to adapt to survive any ordeal that is hindering them from going forward…sometimes for the better or otherwise

So, let me illustrate life as a boiling water…treacherous, unforgiving, and down right unpleasing…and 3 groups of ‘people’ are to go through this ‘life’

First is the ‘carrot’ people…tough and strong at first…immovable as the mountain…but once being boiled, it get soggy…soft and ‘lembik’

Second is ‘egg’ people…fragile in the beginning…too easy to be broken and hurt…but once boiled…became an opposite…hardened and deadly if thrown at someone’s head >.<

Lastly, ’coffee’ people…have that strong aura(aroma) that fills the room…even boiled…that aura does not change

So…as the title speak for itself…which is you?

MUNDANE LIFE

It surprises me when i see people patronize the train station, all dress up and ready to work. Working gives me another new perspective to life itself...being a student, he have our mind set on teenagers and grown-ups...now having a working life myself gives me a fresh new look towards teenagers and grown-ups...

Just to keep my blog alive, i have to write something so i start with what attracts my attention...that is ppl!! working people that is...work is not all fun i can say that...also depending on what you are working...as for me, my work is mundane and dull...having to do the same thing over and over again makes me wonder...what makes all of us tick?

If working is mundane, what about life itself? we wake up, eat, clean ourself (which ever that comes first >.<) work for grown-ups and school for the young, lunch, work some more for 'old people', tuition for young people, rest, dinner, doing something before bed. And guess what, it repeats all over!!

But we keep on moving...because not everyday is the same ^^, even the 'path' is the same, the events or happening wont be...for example, we clean ourself...sure we do that...who knows one day you fall down and hurt your.....well, is different right? compare to the other days...at least it will make that day a memorable day...lolz

So to break the cycle of boresville, try to do something extraordinary for that day...dont wait for it to come...it will only happen on chances...but if you seek it yourself, it definitely will make your life more meaningful than doing those things i just mention...so just step out and do something...whenever there is a opportunity...dont be afraid of the outcome...if not...back to your zombie lifestyle....

Life is meaningful if you make it meaningul, life is boring when you do boring stuff, life is exciting when you do challenging things, in conclusion, life is what you want it to be...be strong and be positive...the only time when you cant do something is when you admit you cant...

Life Goes On™

Its too late…sometimes

Many people don’t get it…sometimes saying sorry is just not enough…not everything can be revert back with sorry and apologies…

Ever heard of spilled milk? once is spilled there is nothing can be done…sorry wont help…the only thing is clean it up…

Be quick to listen, slow to speak…one of the golden rules to have a better life…by biting your tongue, you will be less to hurt people and thus reducing yourself to say sorry which sometimes is not the magic word to settle the matter…

So why take the chances when you can avoid everything just be slow to speak…think twice before anything come out of your mouth, be it words or saliva…lol! before is too late…

Gmail…I salute you!!

This post is meant for those people behind google…you have out-done yourself…especially gmail…all that is free but you never gave it half-heartedly…

This is the background behind the email…i just LOVE the theme…especially this one…although there are more to try out but i am very satisfied with this…is not just this pic…everyday i see new background….as if i am seeing my email through the Hubble Telescope…as it rotate, i can see whatever is in my sight in space…through its lens

Again…good job and well done!!

Rain…why art thou forsaken us?

Oh my…is it hot here or is it just me? A familiar phrase to praise oneself, this time is really hot hOT HOT!!!

It hasn’t been raining…and even few scatter of raindrops couldn't  reduce this intense heat we are feeling now…

I guess hot season is sweeping the area or it is just  mother nature showing her regrets on us…we abuse her when she is young, we ignore her when she is crying, and now when she ignore us, we are dying…

If only life were so simple that we can roam freely around nature, feeling the gentle breeze caressing our face, gently brushing our hair, gives us the warmth from the sun and the panoramic scenes, instead of hiding inside man-made walls.

As the weather gets hotter, we reduce the temperature of air-conditioning to create a comfortable environment…if he have one…if not fan will do to create artificial wind…and i dare say non of that can compete with nature…even on a hot day, sitting or standing under a tree can actually significantly reduce the ‘hot-ness’…and its FREE!!!

Sadly…the world cant see that…and we have to pay the price…the expensive one just to benefit a few…but sacrifice the many…THATS LIFE!! LIVE WITH IT!!

LIFE GOES ON!™

BGR

 

i have lost track of my last post…guess hectic coupled with mundane life causes me to be lazy…even to post a blog.

Recently…actually, very much recent, something had happen…although that person claim to accidentally blurted it out…which i am doubtful ( >.< ) cause it was typed out…it gave me this motivation to write about something i should have written long time ago in Bethlehem…

As the title writes BGR, i don't know whether it is used widely, i first heard it in my hometown…which basically stands for boy-girl relationship…

I have seen people get together, broke up, and patched things up…only to be broken again…which got me to think is that why the same cycle? To me, if you broke up with someone, it was suppose not to be patched…or maybe one last chance and that’s it…

The other situation is couple with this person, breaks and then next…was like auditioning for something…maybe in search for Mr. Right..

So my question to you is that what is this relationship to you? To promote that you actually have someone? Or being challenge or motivated to have one for the sake of having one?  Or being desperate?

Sadly, that’s what most people think…and i read a book title “Boy Meets Girl” or something like that (sorry), it clearly define the meaning of dating and courtship…which one are you?

To have a relationship with an opposite gender marks the era of your life that you want to be committed and true to something…that is your relationship with that special person…the special person…and is not like oh man…i like that guy…i’m gonna date him…and then resulted in…ah….he’s not the one…

Why we go and have a relationship blindly? Is it that difficult to actually work your way up towards having a relationship? And the most important thing is that what is your motive(s)? Goals in the relationship? The books says that courtship is a process for you to get to know that person before marriage…meaning that one time dating is enough…you don’t hurt yourself, you don’t hurt other people in the process..

My advice is that, prepare yourself first before jumping into the water…again, life is not predictable so anything can happen…as long as you are prepared, and you can swim, you can get out of the water safely…Love with knowledge and make sure he is your Mr Right, not Mr Right Now…

Best of luck!

Mr Lonely...

Have you ever wish to be alone sometimes? Wish that everyone around you just vanish? That they will just leave you alone...just you and your world...sound nice doesnt it?

And what if what you wish for actually come true? Can you leave with it? Going through life alone...no pain to share...no joy to share...

I am writing this post is to remind myself what had happened...i do wish for it...a world of my own...my worries my problem...

It was good but for a moment...we are not meant to live alone...from 'wishing' to be alone...i end up being lonely...know the difference in them...we normally want to be alone...but no one wants to be lonely...

I suffer my one year being alone which ended up being lonely...it was painful but educational at the same time...being alone most of the time create a moment for you to think...to wonder about anything related to you or your surrounding...

Nah....i have friends around me....yeah you!! We join certain group of 'ppl' that we call friends maybe due to certain circumstances or having several common grounds...but do we feel belong? We yearn for acknowledgment...

I have several friends encountering this problem...being used by friends...since they know...why bother be friend those ppl? The answer is that we dont want to be alone...is it worth it? Only those ppl encountering this situation know best...

It pains me to see someone alone...cos i understand their pain as i am a loner myself...but i am no GOD...can touch everyone...i am not strong enough to go through life alone...i came alone and i will go alone...there is no reason i have to live alone...no man is an island!!
aA
Although i am bless with wonderful ppl around me...sadly i still feel the loneliness...may it be my fault or not...it doesnt matter...i am thankful...still...wont it be better if it wasnt all that?