i have lost track of my last post…guess hectic coupled with mundane life causes me to be lazy…even to post a blog.
Recently…actually, very much recent, something had happen…although that person claim to accidentally blurted it out…which i am doubtful ( >.< ) cause it was typed out…it gave me this motivation to write about something i should have written long time ago in Bethlehem…
As the title writes BGR, i don't know whether it is used widely, i first heard it in my hometown…which basically stands for boy-girl relationship…
I have seen people get together, broke up, and patched things up…only to be broken again…which got me to think is that why the same cycle? To me, if you broke up with someone, it was suppose not to be patched…or maybe one last chance and that’s it…
The other situation is couple with this person, breaks and then next…was like auditioning for something…maybe in search for Mr. Right..
So my question to you is that what is this relationship to you? To promote that you actually have someone? Or being challenge or motivated to have one for the sake of having one? Or being desperate?
Sadly, that’s what most people think…and i read a book title “Boy Meets Girl” or something like that (sorry), it clearly define the meaning of dating and courtship…which one are you?
To have a relationship with an opposite gender marks the era of your life that you want to be committed and true to something…that is your relationship with that special person…the special person…and is not like oh man…i like that guy…i’m gonna date him…and then resulted in…ah….he’s not the one…
Why we go and have a relationship blindly? Is it that difficult to actually work your way up towards having a relationship? And the most important thing is that what is your motive(s)? Goals in the relationship? The books says that courtship is a process for you to get to know that person before marriage…meaning that one time dating is enough…you don’t hurt yourself, you don’t hurt other people in the process..
My advice is that, prepare yourself first before jumping into the water…again, life is not predictable so anything can happen…as long as you are prepared, and you can swim, you can get out of the water safely…Love with knowledge and make sure he is your Mr Right, not Mr Right Now…
Best of luck!
1 comments:
can't help it...i have to say something also, tho my blog is all empty..paise...but u good at blogging, indeed.
BGR is noble...i learned from the process.by the time the person ages.it is time for the review.and cherish the past.ppl live in simplicity, but wat can they do,things happen.v don want it,but it comes by faith.sometimes v know it is wrong,so wat v can do,v avoid.v live in pain,v cry,v find a way to relieve...by all means,with all respect,if it doesn't cos a life...of course.at the end u live alone.will tht help,i said no,i said a person should find their happiness openly and wisely.if u knw something goes heywire,it's time to sit down and claim wat's wrong and b frank.translucent.watevr la.so those out there,it might be good,if friends can remain4s long s possible,instead of just hangat2tahi ayam.so then,there will be no problem with this internal problem.personally,i hate it like shit.sori.so,v vow to find some1who is faithful.
i agree with u!
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